midnite calls

[cookies]

hi,

my friend told me recently her husband always received calls in the middle of the night. he does not want to answer the phone and left it ringing. my friend asked him who is that and why he does not want to answer he said nobody and don't ask so much. my friend try to peep for the caller ID but it was private number. she is very bothered with this and ask me for advise. there is only 2 possibilities - woman or money.

how to make her husband talk?

[EILEEN LIU]

the husband definitely hiding something. when the hp keeps ringing in the middle of the night and the husband said it is "nobody". if it is truly nobody, then why did he not answer the call and told that "nobody to stop calling since that person got the wrong number. that would stop the disturbance to their sleep.

if i were the wife, i would list out all these loop holes and strange things, ask him explain, demanded that he tell me the truth. if it is really a woman, let me know, if he wants to be out of the marriage, let me know, i would gladly grant him freedom. then save him the inconvenience of not being able to answer the phone calls. there is no point keeping a man by your side if his heart is not with you anymore.

the wife definitely should not let it be. living in constant doubt is not fair to her and to her husband. if the husband is really innocent, then to constantly be suspicious of him is not fair.

better to get things out in the open. i always believe a marriage should have no secrets and total honesty with each other is one key of keeping a marriage alive.

[duffyduck]

mm... I also think it's suspicious and the wife should try to find out what's it about. but I think she should do it tactfully. Given that the husband didn't want to answer the calls...Well, may be he has also made up his mind that whoever it is, he doesn't want to get involved anymore. - may be he did something wrong but didnt want to continue anymore. It's then up to the wife whether after she knows the truth... can she still forgive?

If it's loan shark then I think the wife should know before things get out of hand. All in all, I think the wife should make some mental preparation before she asks. It's better to maintain a cool mind to resolve things then to make things worse by being overly emotional.

[Ah Boy]

I also used to get calls in the middle of the night from strange people le. I picked up a few times and it's a different foreign lady each time, asking whether we can be friends... in the middle of the night

[huey]

alamak...ah boy did you subscribe to those sleezy hotline! hahaha!

Aiya...just keep asking that husband until he cannot sleep la. man cannot be trusted!

[Curry Chicken]

Man hater on the loose